Poll: Second marriage wedding or no wedding?

The size of any wedding - whether it's the first or the tenth - should be up to the bride and groom. NOBODY else should have a say in the matter. The fact that your aunt and her new husband decided to have a small wedding was their decision. They may have wanted to keep it small for budgetary reasons since they just bought a house. Or they may have just wanted a small, intimate ceremony with just family and the closest of friends since it is the second marriage for both of them. The family has no right to be upset. If they wanted them to have a big wedding, they should have offered to pay for it. They should be happy for your aunt and her new husband.